Mother knows best?
One mother in particular certainly thinks so. Today sees the UK publication of a book on attachment parenting by the actress Mayim Bialik, a keen advocate of the child-rearing approach that encourages breastfeeding until a child weans naturally and allowing him or her to share the parental bed.
What are her credentials?
Most famous for her role as the socially awkward neuroscientist Amy Farrah Fowler in the US sitcom The Big Bang Theory, the actress, like her character, also holds a PhD in neuroscience. She says she drew on her scientific background along with her experiences as a mother to pen the parenting tome.
Any useful words of wisdom?
In the book Dr Bialik, 38, presents the central tenets of attachment parenting, focusing on the practices of “co-sleeping”, whereby babies and young children sleep with their parents in their bed rather than separately in a crib; “baby-wearing”, meaning the infant is carried in a sling attached to the parent as opposed to a buggy; and breastfeeding until the child chooses to stop. Dr Bialik was the subject of intense criticism in 2012 when she was spotted breastfeeding her three-year-old son on the New York subway.
Breastfeeding a child with a mouth full of teeth doesn’t sound very appealing…
Dr Bialik, who also serves as a lactation counsellor, revealed the following year that her son Fred had self-weaned aged four; her other son did so aged two. Having studied the hormones of mammalian bonding, she insists that attachment parenting is the best way to respond to a child’s needs. However, she risks alienating many potential readers, condemning “indignant women who want to be in offices and not parenting their children actively”.
But doesn’t she juggle motherhood with work?
Dr Bialik, who split from her husband in 2012, said: “I made the difficult decision to stay at home when my children were little. I’m lucky that the father of my children was there to look after them when I did return to work.” She has been nominated for three Emmys but shuns the limelight.“I work to pay the mortgage, but life is about being a mum. My children are compassionate because they have been shown compassion, what else could I want?”