AOC made the speech after Republican colleague Ted Yoho allegedly accosted her on the steps of the Capitol Building and called her “disgusting, crazy, out of [her] mind and dangerous”.
Yoho then reportedly added to the remarks labelling her a “f**king bitch”, in front of reporters.
In response, AOC made a speech in Congress, expertly breaking down how Yoho’s behaviour was not an individual event, but part of a culture of misogyny.
This issue is not about one incident. It is cultural. It is a culture of lack of impunity, of accepting of violence and violent language against women, and an entire structure of power that supports that.
For his part, Yoho responded with a non-apology, claiming he “[couldn’t] apologise” for his “passion”.
And now Ocasio-Cortez has revealed a key part of the background to her impressive speech: notes.
Posting on Instagram, the congresswoman showed followers her notebook scribbles, which she says she jotted down the night before she was due to take the floor.
In a caption, AOC explained how she managed to find the words for what she wanted to say:
I want to thank everyone for your immense outpouring of personal stories and support for one another after last week’s speech on the violence of misogyny and abuse of power in the workplace. I figured I’d share some behind-the-scenes details of what went into that moment.
Many have asked me if my speech was pre-written. The answer is no. But in some ways, yes. Yes because this speech was a recounting of thoughts that so many women and femme people have carried since the time we were children.
It flowed because every single one of us has lived this silent script: stay silent (why?), keep your head down (for whom?), suck it up (to whose benefit?). But my chosen words were largely extemporaneous. I got to the House floor about ten minutes before my speech and scribbled down some quick notes after reflecting on what had transpired over the last few days. Pictured here are all the notes I had, and from there I improvised my composition and spoke live.
She also revealed her first instinct had been to ‘let it go’ and she had to fight against the urge in order to hold Rep. Yoho accountable.
Continuing, she wrote:
The evening before my speech, I did not know what I was going to say. I wrestled with this question: what is there to say to a man who isn’t listening? I couldn’t come up with much, because frankly I didn’t want to diminish myself or waste my breath. It was then that I decided if I couldn’t get through to him, perhaps I could speak directly to the culture, people, and institutions responsible for creating and protecting this violence and violent language.
I also reflected on MY role in all of this - to me, this speech was about holding myself accountable as much as anyone else. Because my first instinct was to let it go. It was my second instinct, too.
It was only when sisters like @ayannapressley, @rashidatlaib, @repilhan and friends like @repraskin reminded me how unacceptable this all was that I started to think about what I would have done if this abuse happened to any other person BUT me. That is when I found my voice. Why is it okay to swallow our own abuse, yet stand up for others? I needed to learn that by standing up for ourselves, we break the chain of abuse and stand up for every person after us who would have been subject to more of the same with lack of accountability.