I honestly feel that what he did was a blessing because otherwise I would have been the way I was forever.
I had pretty much had weight issues my whole life. I was always the chubby kid, I never played sports or wanted to take in physical activity because I was overweight. I did get bullied in school and got picked on. I think for me eating was like self-medication.
I have anxiety and instead of dealing with the real source of my anxiety I would eat and then that would become the source of my anxiety and I would eat some more and it was just a vicious cycle.
After having her daughter, Ayala says she was at her heaviest. She lost 60 pounds in four months after finding out her husband was cheating on her with a co-worker.
And despite allegedly calling her fat behind her back, Ayala claims he was actually enabling her to stay overweight.
He would always tell me I looked fine or would try to get me to eat junk all the time which is why I was so devastated when I read those messages because it was almost like he enabled me or wanted me to stay that way.
Now Ayala says she’s happier, confident and positive.