If you really want to know what someone is like, ask this one question

Narjas Zatat@Narjas_Zatat
Wednesday 13 April 2016 11:00
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What do you think of Jack?

A study conducted by Dr Dustin Wood of Wake Forest University in North Carolina asked people what they thought of others, and what they said revealed a lot about their own character.

The study was made up of three parts; in one, people were asked to describe three other people’s positive and negative traits.

Those who emphasised the positive tended to be more positive, happy people themselves.

On the other hand, the people who judged negatively tended to exhibit high levels of narcissism and antisocial behaviour.

Dr Wood said:

A huge suite of negative personality traits are associated with viewing others negatively. The simple tendency to see people negatively indicates a greater likelihood of depression and various personality disorders.

A year later, Dr Wood revisited the people who had been part of the study, and found that their opinions hadn't changed: those that perceived others positively were still positive, and the same could be said for the negative ones.

High levels of narcissism can be linked to depression, antisocial disorders and, in extreme cases psychopathy.

So if you want to find out if that new guy at work is a decent human being, ask him what he thinks of your manager.

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