It's tempting to think that a man's only erogenous zone is the one he pokes you in the back with first thing, but lots of men enjoy having their ear lobes, neck and nipples kissed.
Stone cited a University of California study which concluded that men prefer some 11 per cent more tongue than women.
4. Be aware of the body hair
Dan Anderson, author of Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay man, wrote:
While massaging or licking a hairy chest, thigh or calf, do be gentle. Unless you’re lightly tickling him, concentrate on the muscle and not the surface, because an overzealous stroking may seem passionate to you, but it’s a painful hair-pulling for him.
Creams, lotions and massage oils can make it even worse [so] use them judiciously.