The biggest reason couples argue will surprise you

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A new study by online dating website eHarmony has found the biggest reasons that couples fight.

Surveying its users, eHarmony found the top 10 causes of arguments in relationships.

It's not the reason you might think. While many would assume its to do with sex, intimacy or a lack of it, actually came tenth in eHarmony's list.

The list

1. Not listening (47%)

2. Insensitivity/ saying the wrong thing (34%)

3. Thoughtlessness (29%)

4. Money worries (27%)

5. Family concerns (22%)

6. Kids (17%)

7. Always on technology (phone, internet) 13%

8. Snoring (13%)

9. Working hours (10%)

10. Sex (a lack of) (10%)