A source told Page Six: “Grimes said this was the first time in three years that anyone understood the joke. They were both poking fun at AI.”
7 May 2018
Reports swirl that the couple have begun dating and the rumours appear to be confirmed when they attend the 2018 Met Gala together.
Just before they emerged on the red carpet together, Musk tweets the inside joke that brought them into contact initially.
22 July 2018
Grimes continued to support her boyfriend’s tech endeavours as she came along to the 2018 SpaceX Hyperloop Pod Competition. Musk is the CEO and Chief Engineer at SpaceX as well as the CEO of Tesla.
20 August 2018
The pair unfollowed each other on Instagram, leading to speculation that the couple had separated. But, by October, Musk starts following Grimes again.
20 March 2019
Grimes opens up in an interview about what it’s like to date Musk and the level of public scrutiny that now accompanies her actions.
She told The Wall Street Journal: “I just thought I could keep going along in my funny little way, and then you casually respond to someone in a tweet and it’s on Fox News, and you’re like, ‘Ugh,’ you know? That was a very disturbing moment.”
8 January 2020
Grimes takes to Instagram to reveal she’s pregnant with an image appearing to show a baby inside her bump.
More speculation over their relationship status occurs as Musk unfollows Grimes on Twitter, but begins following her again a couple of days later.
5 May 2020
Grimes gives birth to the couple’s baby boy, who they name X Æ A-12 Musk.
18 May 2020
Musk gets into a Twitter spat with Grimes’ mother, after she calls him out for sharing “bulls**t” online after he told his followers to “take the red pill”.
In response, Grimes’ mother wrote: “If your partner went through a challenging pregnancy and childbirth in the last two weeks…and you were over 16 years old, would you be blaring MRA bullshit on Twitter right now?”
To make matters worse, Musk liked his would-be mother-in-law’s tweet before unliking it.
25 May 2020
The state of California takes issue with the baby name X Æ A-12, so according to Grimes, it’s changed to X Æ A-Xii.
24 July 2020
Musk goes on another Twitter rant, this time criticising the US government’s response to Covid-19 with stimulus packages and also saying “pronouns suck”.
In a now-deleted tweet, Grimes reportedly tried to reason with her partner and step in to stop him tweeting.
She wrote: “I love you but please turn off ur phone or give me a [c]all. I cannot support hate. Please stop this. I know this isn’t your heart.”
They then unfollowed each other.
25 July 2020
A joint New York Times feature goes live in which the couple discuss life as parents and Musk admits he hasn’t been doing much since the baby was born.
Musk said: “Well, babies are just eating and pooping machines, you know? Right now, there’s not much I can do.
“Grimes has a much bigger role than me right now. When the kid gets older, there will be more of a role for me.”
24 September 2021
The couple announced that they have “semi-separated”. Musk told Page Six they “are semi-separated but still love each other, see each other frequently, and are on great terms”.
Musk also added: “It’s mostly that my work at SpaceX and Tesla requires me to be primarily in Texas or travelling overseas and her work is primarily in L.A. She’s staying with me now and Baby X is in the adjacent room.”
6 December 2021
Now, just months after their separation was confirmed by Musk, Grimes has released a track that people believe is a dig at Musk.
The song features lyrics that reference being “in love with the greatest gamer” and “he’ll always love the game more than he loves me”.
Pointedly, she also references space travel – something Musk has been heavily involved in through SpaceX.
She sings: “Sail away to the cold expanse of space, even love couldn’t keep you in your place.”
In an interview with Vanity Fair, Grimes revealed that she and Musk had a second child in secret which they named Exa Dark Sideræl. She also claimed that the billionaire sometimes lives below "below the property line."
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