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Cheating on a partner is universally condemnable.
It can start in all manner of ways and can go on for years without anyone knowing.
There are some signs common if your partner is doing the dirty on you, but discovering it can be devastating.
Over on Reddit users are sharing the moment they first realised that their other half was seeing someone else and they are fascinating to read.
Here are some of the most discussed comments: