Photo: Cora Harrington, by Nomi Ellenson / Screenshot: Twitter / @lingerie_addict
The last few days have seen an eruption of debates surrounding body image on social media.
The initial catalyst for this increase in conversation was Insatiable, a new Netflix series whose premise is seemingly simple: a fat woman (played by a thin woman in a fat suit, of course) is bullied for her weight, then suffers a horrific accident and has her jaw wired shut.
During this time she can’t eat, so returns with a slimmed-down body and an insatiable (get it?) appetite for revenge – which she can now achieve, because she’s thin!
Activists have since launched a petition for the show’s release to be cancelled, but plenty of social media users remain confused about the controversy, as well as the outrage from body-positive activists.
Luckily, writer Cora Harrington – who runs a successful website, The Lingerie Addict, and is scheduled to release a new book, In Intimate Detail, next month – stepped in to clarify a few misconceptions, namely the concept of ‘thin privilege’ and how it can be applicable to people who don’t necessarily ‘feel’ thin.
Hey, you don’t have to “feel thin” to have thin privilege.
Thinness isn’t a feeling. If other people perceive you… https://t.co/yzzZxVuZGW
Harrington is well-versed in these subjects, and has previously spoken to indy100about the lingerie industry and its overall lack of diversity.
Throughout the thread, she references a series of ongoing issues – the seemingly endless conversations around a lack of interesting plus-size ranges on the high street, for example, or the continuous prevalence of fat-shaming which, for the record, doesn't work and actually comes with a string of insidious effects.
No one looks at a photo of me online and tells me I need to lose weight or sees me out and about eating a cookie or… https://t.co/oZdQtREmtK
As well as making reference to the various news stories written about fat women in particular being shamed on aeroplanes, Harrington also calls out the notion that the body-positivity is still truly ‘radical’ by highlighting the fact that many of its figureheads are still closely aligned with conventional beauty standards.
Plenty of fashion brands have also made a habit of promoting ‘body-positivity’ without ever casting models whose bodies don’t fit a size 14/16.
The division in opinion made evident throughout the replies highlights that there's still work to be done in terms of fleshing out these debates, but Harrington's words seemingly confirm the idea that people get seriously offended when they're accused of having 'privilege' of any description.
The term doesn't imply an inherently cushy life, nor is it designed to negate the genuine struggles of people that might not fit into any 'minority' category; instead, it simply shows that the world more readily caters to some people than it does to others. Privilege as a concept isn't about feelings, or an example of 'Oppression Olympics'; it's about highlighting the tiny acts of aggression or discrimination that plenty of people experience on a daily basis.
Ultimately, as the body-shaming debate rages on, Harrington's words are a handy guide to empathising with people whose identities differ from your own.