Alisa said many people were leaving Kyiv, but she and her husband were working out the funeral documents “all over the city” to bury her father.
“We collected almost all the documents, ordered a restaurant for a commemoration, but since the registry office was evacuated, and didn’t give us one final document, the crematorium refused to accept anyone,” she said.
Alisa is also a Python programmer and works for a German company that helped her leave the country for Poland with her family and two large dogs, including the elderly German shepherd.
However, her husband couldn’t cross the border because of his age and “the mobilisation order.”
Driving in a Peugeot 307 she said it was hard to move in the vehicle.
“We drove for 16 hours to a village about 140km from Kyiv…We decided to leave the village later in the morning because it was dangerous, even there,” Alisa said.
She continued to say that there were a lot of cars close to Poland’s border, and she and her family couldn’t stay in the car for the “next three – or five – days”, which prompted them to walk the 10 miles at 4am in minus seven-degree weather.
The elderly German shepherd, who is 12 and half years old, struggled to walk and fell every kilometre and couldn’t stand up again. Alisa asked people for help, but they declined and told her to leave the dogs behind.
This Ukrainian woman carried her old dog for 17km to cross the border with her. pic.twitter.com/wCthUAjqyw
“But our dogs are part of our family. My dog has experienced all the happy and sad moments with us.”
Towards the end of her piece, she explains how hard it was for her to leave the country.
“At first, I lost my dad, and now I leave my husband there. My husband is a big part of me; he is my best friend, assistant, adviser. Our boundless love is what gives me strength now.”
Check out people’s reactions below in response to her resilience:
I'm sobbing. Even more amazing to me, is that in all the photos and videos I've seen, the dogs seem to understand and will let themselves be carried. I don't think I could lift my 85 lb girl, but I couldn't leave her behind.
I've seen some incredibly moving images from this war these past 2 weeks but the images of people who demonstrate that their pets ARE family in good times and war times sear my heart. It speaks volumes to me about who they are and I pray for them with my whole heart.
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