One TikToker managed to keep her engagement secret from her friends for two years, sparking debate as to whether it's smart, or just a bit mean.
“Tell me you live for chaos without telling me you live for chaos, I’ll go first,” wrote Sierra, the bride-to-be in a now-viral clip.
She's avoided speaking about her relationship since she got engaged in 2020, as she wanted it to be a surprise.
"I wanted to see their reactions when they opened their mailboxes and found an invitation to my wedding," she explained.
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